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Meditation

A practice of remembering who you are

Meditation is often misunderstood as something only for monks, people with lots of time, or those who can sit still without thinking.
But in truth, meditation is a practice of being with yourself, gently and honestly, exactly as you are.

It is a way to slow down, clear the noise, and come back to your inner knowing.
Not by escaping the body, but by softening into it.
Not by silencing your thoughts, but by being present with whatever is alive in the moment.

Meditation can be practised sitting, lying down, or even in movement.
It can be as simple as following your breath or as rich as exploring a guided visualisation or body scan.


My journey with meditation

I discovered meditation not long after I began practising yoga.
At first, it felt unfamiliar and even a little uncomfortable.
But over time, it became one of the most transformative tools I’ve ever known.

Meditation brought me back into my body and into my truth.
It reconnected me with my intuition in a way I didn’t know was possible.
It helped me hear the quiet voice beneath the noise, the one that told me what was really aligned for me.
It empowered me to let go of roles, relationships, and beliefs that were no longer serving me.

Some of the biggest shifts in my life came from this space of stillness and clarity.
Not from force or logic, but from truth.

Even now, meditation is part of my life in quiet, simple ways.


What meditation can bring

Meditation is not about clearing your mind or stopping your thoughts.
It is about learning to be with them, without needing to fix, escape, or control.
It is about connecting to your breath, your body, and your inner landscape and welcoming what is already there.

Practised regularly, meditation can support:

  • Inner calm and emotional regulation
  • Clarity in decision-making
  • Reconnection with intuition and inner guidance
  • Reduced stress, anxiety, and overthinking
  • Greater body awareness and presence
  • Investigating emotional patterns or subconscious beliefs
  • A deeper connection with yourself and your truth

It is not about perfection. It is about practice.
It is about creating space to feel, to listen, and to come home.


Forms of meditation

There are many ways to meditate. You do not have to sit still in silence.
If you have found traditional meditation challenging, there are softer, more embodied forms available.

Some examples include:

  • Guided meditations using voice, sound, or music
  • Body scan meditations for awareness and relaxation
  • Visualisations to access intuition, creativity, or healing
  • Breath-based meditation for grounding and calm
  • Movement meditations like walking or intuitive dance
  • Mindfulness practices for observing thoughts, emotions, and sensations

The key is to find a practice that meets you where you are, and to allow it to evolve over time.


Rooted in the body

Meditation becomes even more powerful when it includes the body.
For sensitive or neurodivergent nervous systems, stillness alone can sometimes feel overwhelming.
That is why I often blend meditation with body-based tools like visualisation, breathwork, and touch awareness.

When you include the body, the practice becomes more than stillness.
It becomes a doorway into feeling, healing, and intuition.
A way to be with what is true, without rushing to change it.
A practice of honesty, softness, and self-trust.

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The pain of having sisters

Of course, I love my sisters.
But something from my early years quietly shaped my life.

When I was two, I suddenly had to share my world.
I was too young to understand what was happening.
Too young to grasp big changes.
Too young to know how to keep my place in the family.

What I’ve been exploring lately is how that early experience planted the seeds of scarcity in me.
This sense of “there isn’t enough” 
not enough love, not enough attention, not enough space for my needs.

And so a protector stepped in.
One who learned to minimise what I wanted,
to silence big feelings,
to become “easy,”
to take less space,
to convince me that my needs weren’t important anyway.

It’s strange how such early moments can ripple through adulthood…
how they show up in relationships, intimacy, business, self-worth…
How the body remembers long before the mind can understand. It’s a common wound under firstborns who suddenly had to share their parents.

Lately, I’ve been meeting that little girl again.
The one who felt that shift she couldn’t name,
the one who coped the only way she knew how.

Giving her softness.
Giving her space.
Letting her know she was never replaced.
Letting her feel that her needs matter.
That there is enough.
That she gets to take up space.

And somehow…
that simple truth is beginning to change everything.

#innerchildhealing #innerlijkwerk
#firstbornwound #embodiedhealing
#nervoussystemhealing #attachmenthealing
#selfworthjourney #innerlijkkindwerk
When a man didn’t run from my emotions

During the @zoukmira embodiment events, I met someone who reminded me of what that could feel like. He wasn’t interfering in my process or offering advice I didn’t ask for. He wasn’t overly protective or constantly checking in. He was just there. I could sense him in the background, grounded, steady, available. And when I needed him, I could approach him. When things felt too much, I could lean on him, and he would simply be still. When I cried on his shoulder, he didn’t try to make it better. He just stayed quiet, letting me have my moment, and somehow that stillness spoke more than any words could.

When we paired up in a shadow workshop I showed him some of the anger I carried inside, and I remember feeling scared that it might be too much, that I did not feel safe enough in the container of the group to go deeper. He looked at me and said, “I can handle much more than that.” Those words landed so deeply. It wasn’t even the words themselves, it was the way he said them, the energy behind them. I realized how much I had longed for that kind of presence my entire life; a masculine energy that could hold me without needing to control me, that could guide me back to my center simply by being there.

I can see now that so much of what I’ve been searching for in men was really this longing for safety, for someone to help me hold all that I feel, not to fix it, not to change it, but to witness it. And somehow, through this connection, something in me started to heal. 

This experience didn’t erase what was missing in the past, but it showed me what’s possible now. That love, safety, and presence can still arrive later in life, in forms I didn’t expect.

@Martin_hartmannshenn I’m grateful for the friendship we have build. A connection built on trust, and holding space for each other. In my most vulnerable moments, I could lean on you and feel the steadiness of a masculine support that helped me stay with myself. 💫

 #innerchildhealing #fatherwound #divinemasculine #innerwork #embodiedhealing #emotionalawareness #healingjourney #shadowwork #selfhealing #embodiment #traumahealing #spiritualgrowth #nervoussystemregulation
🇬🇧English in comments 

Het is heerlijk weer.
Ik zit met mijn vriend op een terrasje te werken, met een prachtig uitzicht op het park.
Langzaam stroomt het terras vol mensen. Gesprekken, koffiekopjes die neergezet worden, stemmen, gelach.
En ergens merk ik… dat ik me steeds slechter begin te voelen.

Op een gegeven moment zeg ik hardop: “Ik ben overprikkeld. Het gaat niet goed.”
Ik pak mijn geluidsdempende oordopjes, zet een kalmerend muziekje op, doe mijn ogen dicht en leun met mijn hoofd tegen de achterkant van de bank.

En dan komen de emoties.
Verdriet.
Niet gekoppeld aan een herinnering of een gedachte. Gewoon… verdriet.
Ik laat het over me heen komen, zonder er iets mee te willen doen.
Langzaam vullen mijn ogen zich met tranen.

Na een tijdje open ik mijn ogen weer.
Dezelfde zon. Hetzelfde park.
Maar ik voel me ineens zoveel lichter, zoveel meer aanwezig.

Soms zitten we de hele dag in ons hoofd.
We merken niet hoeveel kleine gebeurtenissen, berichtjes, blikken, geluiden zich in ons opstapelen.
We banjeren maar door.
En pas als het lichaam fluistert genoeg – of soms schreeuwt – hebben we de kans om te stoppen.

Soms is dat alles wat nodig is:
de ogen sluiten, het lichaam voelen, en toestaan dat alles wat vastzat… mag stromen.

Herken jij dit? Dat je pas voelt wat er leeft in je lichaam als je eindelijk even stilvalt?
Voel je vrij om hieronder te delen.

#overprikkeling #hoogsensitief #ontprikkelen #emotiesvoelen #emotioneelherstel #zelfzorg #hsp #lichamenluisteren #embodiment #emotiesdoorvoelen
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